I said this somewhere else in the thread already but it sound like it could help you, get a genetic compatibility test for adhd meds, my doctor gave me a referral for one and it gave clear recommendations on which medications would likely be fine and which would have chances of negative side effects. Even without the referral I'm sure you can get a test like this privately for reasonable price.

These medications are serious and side effects can include thoughts of suicide so I'm always shocked when doctors try to wing it and just prescribe whatever and see how it goes. I'm hoping it's because they don't know about the genetic tests yet but some are likely willfully ignorant.